Understanding Women's Mood as like a wave

Hai guys! How have you been? I hope you have a good day today since it’s weekend :D

I found an interesting story from the book “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus” by John Gray. 

Here I will talk about the story just in one chapter from that book. Are you interested? Let’s get started !

A Woman is like a wave? Is that true? When you feel happy in a minute but one minute later, you feel down. your mood is like roller coaster, isn’t it? That’s exactly what I feel recently :D.
You know, we as women always have different ways to express our love to our partner. As like the book said “women will give their love thoroughly when they have good mood but women also will ask the men to love her when they fell down”. Men don’t understand how to make the women back in a good mood. They naively expect that shine to last forever. But to expect her loving nature to be constant is like expecting the weather never to change and the sun to shine all the time. Like in relationship, men and women have different rhythm and cycles.

Yeah, you guys already know that men and women absolutely different. So, when the women feel down or bad mood, don’t try to fix it. Bill and Mary had been married for six years. Bill had observed this wave pattern in Mary, but because he didn't understand it, he tried to "fix it," which just made matters worse. He thought something was wrong with her tendency to go up and down. He would try explaining to her that she didn't need to be upset. Mary only felt more misunderstood and thus more distressed.

Although he thought he was "fixing it," he was actually preventing her from feeling better. When a woman moves into her well, he needs to learn that this is when she needs him the most, and it is not a problem to be solved or fixed, but an opportunity to support her with unconditional love. From that example of the book, the last thing a woman needs when she is on her way down is someone telling her why she shouldn't be down. What she needs is someone to be with her as she goes down, to listen to her while she shares her feelings, and to empathize with what she is going through. Even if a man can't fully understand why a woman feels overwhelmed, he can offer his love, attention, and support. So, for Men you have just to accompany your partner when she feels down, don’t try to leave her moreover you don’t listen what she talks to you, get it men?

Okay, I have some suggestion for men out there. If you have a girlfriend, try to understand her well with her mood wave. Because if you don’t understand how to get back her mood, you’ll have more problems. Just listen to her, be patient and give her you support. You have to make her safe and make her sure that nothing happen. After that you can tell some story about your activity that can make her forget her problem then you’ll laugh and she will be in a good mood again. why do I tell this? Because I already felt that situation so I share this to you hehe :D

I think it’s already the end of my story in this time, I hope you’ll enjoy my story. I’m so sorry if you find many mistakes in my writing, thank you J. See you in the next post! bye byee…